Monday, January 23, 2012

"There Aren't A Lot of Jewish People Here."

There Aren’t A Lot of Jewish People Here…

“There aren’t a lot of Jewish people here” is a phrase I hear daily when I visit seniors in long term care. The average facility in South Orlando has less than a handful of Jewish residents. Therefore, residents are overjoyed to interact with Jewish Pavilion staff and volunteers. At a recent Shabbat service, I was thanked over a dozen times by three older women. Together we shared a traditional Jewish meal in the beautiful, private dining room at Madison House. The Activities Director and chef joined us for the blessings and a wonderful conversation that started with the torah portion and ended with us chatting about our families. Traditional Jewish recipes and holiday celebrations were a major part of the conversation. While the Jewish Pavilion is “in the business” of bringing Jewish culture to residents in independent, assisted and skilled nursing, it is the personal attention that the residents enjoy most of all. When I left to return to work, Susan Mazlin, one of our wonderful volunteers, was escorting Evy, one of the residents to her room. I am confident that the two chatted for at least a half hour after I departed. Being a part of a Jewish community means far more than providing Jewish ritual. At the Jewish Pavilion, we provide compassionate companionship as well.
By Nancy Ludin, Executive Director Jewish Pavilion

Thursday, January 5, 2012

Bonding is What We Are All About...

Bonding is what we are all about…

“Absolutely Anna”, a one woman show about memories, will be presented to Pearl  level givers of $500 or more to the Jewish Pavilion on Wednesday, January 25th at 11 a.m. at Oakmonte Village.’ Why is it important for Pavilion supporters to get together? Because, being a part of the Jewish Pavilion  means that you care about our elders in the community and their quality of life. When women who “care” get together over brunch, the bonding is incredible. Many close friendships have formed as a result of their volunteer and philanthropic commitments. Having the event at Oakmonte Village in Lake Mary is extra special, because a Pavilion volunteer, Cathy Swerdlow, goes to Oakmonte bi- weekly to provide Shabbat services and bi-monthly to provide Jewish education. Jewish holidays are celebrated in style at Oakmonte Village. If you are looking for good friends, one of the best places to find them is through Jewish communal activity. Being involved with the Pavilion  will change your  life for the better.

Tuesday, December 20, 2011

Love... Jewish Pavilion Style

For many people,  it is hard to imagine celebrating Hanukkah for eight nights.  Our family gathers around the menorah for all eight nights, and we sing songs and play games until the candles burn down. The emphasis is on spending times together and enjoying the Hanukkah food, decor, music and candle lighting. For the Jewish Pavilion, Hanukkah lasts much longer... 18 days and nights. Our four Program Directors plan ten parties each, at different ends of town, and dozens of volunteers participate in the festivities. Musicians like Carol Stein, Nancy Waldman, Paul Stenzler and Penny D'Agostino perform at multiple nursing homes and residents of all faiths have the opportunity to celebrate Hanukkah with the Pavilion. Yesterday, I attended a Hanukkah party at Westminster Towers along with other volunteers, the Westminster staff, residents and their family members. Ella Colley, age 9 delivered a speech about the history of Hanukkah. She and her brother Ben age 6, decorated Hanukkah cookies for all. The most incredible aspect of the party for me was the number of times I heard the words "I love you." Flory Kahn and her volunteers continuously told one another how much they are loved, while the residents and volunteers did the same. If you are looking for love during the holiday season, you can certainly find it on a daily basis at the Jewish Pavilion.

Friday, December 9, 2011

Tis the Season ( for hanukkah too)

Tis The Season… (for Hanukkah too)

Tis the season for Christmas. Everywhere we look we see red and green. Christmas carols abound on the radio and can be heard in all places that have a speaker system. We count on seeing beautifully decorated Christmas trees and other holiday ornamentation. Wherever we go, people are wishing us a “merry Christmas.”

Some Jews refer to this time period as the “December Dilemma”, wondering whether they should expand their Hanukkah celebrations and add commercialism to the Festival of Lights. Like most Jews, residents in nursing homes are not looking for “equal treatment.” All they can hope for is that their holiday is acknowledged. Just like the elementary school chorus may  sing one or two Hanukkah songs during their Holiday performances, the residents are looking for a little Hanukkah in their lives.

The Jewish Pavilion fulfills this role in spades. While most large cities have a Jewish Home for the Aged, Orlando does not. Instead the Jewish Pavilion, an outreach organization, ensures that everyone in long term care has the opportunity to celebrate our holiday. At Hanukkah time, 40 parties are planned in independent, assisted and skilled nursing facilities, and residents of all faiths are invited to celebrate.

Everyone has the opportunity to  hear the Hanukkah story and all residents get to enjoy potato latkes, Chanukah cookies, chocolate gelt,  candle lighting and fun songs.  For the Jewish resident, it feels like it is his birthday party and others are celebrating with him. Instead of party balloons, the festive table is decorated with colorful  blue and yellow paper goods donated by Publix supermarkets.  The tables are adorned by blue and white chocolate lollypop centerpieces created by Nancy Layish. Volunteers bring dreidels and gifts for the elderly. Musicians donate their time to make the parties extra special. To learn more about the Jewish Pavilion and/or participate in one of the parties visit www.jewishpavilion.org.

Thursday, September 15, 2011

It Has Everything To Do with Heart!

The latest buzz words in residential life for the elderly are “Person Directed Care and Culture Change” These  refer to a residents  rights to determine many aspects of their lives even if they reside in a facility. A resident should be able to choose what he wants to eat, when he wants to eat, what time he wants to get up in the morning, go to bed at night, get bathed etc. A well educated group of baby boomers are now caring for their parents, and they are bucking heads with long term care facilities that have a history of prescribed times for all activities. One reason the baby boomers are so upset with the current state of affairs is that they see themselves in facilities in the future, and they don’t like what they are seeing.
When interviewing an Admissions Director, the right question may be “Do you offer “Person Directed Care?” The challenge is that the Director  will respond affirmatively even if “Person  Directed Care” is not really offered.” The Jewish Pavilion website www.jewishpavilion.org is an incredible resource. Dr.s Bob Kaplan and Luci Belnick put together a comprehensive list of questions that should be asked when considering a long term care facility. What is even more impressive than the questions are the answers you  should look for. There is also an informative article about “Person Directed Care and Culture Change” from the Pioneer network.

Most people walk into a long term care facility and look at the physical surroundings and make  decisions  based on the carpet or wall paper. The best thing a decision maker  can do is print the list of questions and answers listed on the Jewish Pavilion’s website and bring it along when interviewing an Admissions Director in a potential home for a loved one.
Recently a resident in South Orlando complained to a volunteer at the Jewish Pavilion. She told her friend that she was only being bathed twice a week. The person bathing her was male, and she felt very uncomfortable being touched in private areas by a man. Moreover, she waited in a thin sheet for a considerable amount of time prior to each bath, and she was freezing and embarrassed.
While the Jewish Pavilion does not get involved with health care (our role is to provide companionship and community) I did mention the lady’s concerns to the Executive Director. The Executive Director responded that they bathe  residents twice a week and there is an additional  for extra baths. She told me that her staff was largely comprised of males. She did not comment on the resident sitting in a sheet for a long time prior to her bath but told me that she would look into the matter.
Yesterday, I spoke to Joyce Kadziolka, a superb Executive Director at
Savannah Court
in Maitland. Without telling her the location of the complaint, I shared with her the details. Joyce told me that at
Savannah Court
, when a resident asks for additional baths, they receive them free of charge. Joyce explained that there is no need to have men bathing women who do not want to be bathed by men. The schedule should be adapted to meet the resident’s desires. Moreover, Joyce told me that t companies make warm ponchos for residents who wait  for baths and the robes are reasonably priced. A facility can purchase four robes for $64. She went to her office and printed out the information for me.

While “Person Directed Care” is discussed all around town, what matters is the reality of the situation. Joyce cares. She has a good heart. She prides herself in making the residents and family members happy. Life at
Savannah Court
reflects Joyce’s passion for the elderly and her dedication to her work.
The Jewish Pavilion  staff and volunteers visit 350 residents in 50 facilities all around town.  Prior to making a decision, I recommend that you visit the website www.jewishpavilion.org and get as much information as possible about the Executive Director. In many cases, the Executive Director’s personal  devotion to the elderly and to their work is reflected throughout the building.  Look for someone with heart!

Thursday, September 1, 2011

Pictured is One Happy Family

Pictured is one happy family…

Pictured is one happy family… a mother, daughter and grand daughter who love each other very much. Visiting with one another is heavenly. It’s a family that talks to one another every day, sometimes calling between television commercials. A picture is worth a thousand words.

Helen Caspan, age 77, at Life Care Center of Altamonte Springs. She lives for these annual family reunions. A picture of her with her daughter, Yoheved, and grand daughter, Sarah Rivkah, is as precious as gold. She will show it to every nurse and health aide that enters her room on a daily basis. She will show it to the maintenance man, the kitchen staff and anyone else who comes by. But who else comes?

While Helen sees her daughter from New York annually, she sees her Jewish Pavilion volunteers a few times a week. When Jackie Levitt is in town, she stops by on a daily basis. Nancy and Evan Ludin come every Saturday. Phil Brown visits semi weekly on Fridays and conducts Shabbat services. These visits sustain Helen for an entire  year.

Many Jewish residents in skilled nursing facilities are alone in the world. Helen is one of the lucky ones. It is expensive and challenging for her daughter to visit from New York. Yoheved is an Orthodox Jew who keeps glatt kosher. She travels with all of the food she needs. Even when in Orlando for five days, she cannot visit her mother on Shabbat, because there is no hotel in walking distance of her mother’s facility. When visiting, the threesome is “stuck” in a semi-private room in the nursing home and space is very tight. Helen sits in her wheel chair while her daughter is propped up on the bed. Her  granddaughter crayons in a coloring book while standing bedside.  There are no chairs.

For many elderly adults in long term care, The Jewish Pavilion has truly become a second family. Coordinating volunteers and events is a labor of love. The support of the community is needed for these services to continue. Visit www.jewishpavilion.org to enrich the lives of  Helen and others in her situation.